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KhosKnight
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Posted on 03/06/2010

First off if you see (M) it's ment for males, if you see (F) it's for females, and if you see (B) it's for both
1.(B) You got the date all set up it's almost time, rub one out, this will help to clear your mind so you can PAY ATTENTION, you will be able to hear what the other is saying and judge if you should go forward or RRUUUUUNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!
2.(M)Make sure that you are picking the girl up, befor you go to her door lock all the car doors. that way when you walk her to the car you can unlock and open the door for the lady, then take your time to make your way to the driver side, if you get there and the door is unlocked then be a gentilmen, if you have to unlock your own door shoot for the score.
3.(F) DON"T DRINK, DON'T let him handel your drink. the first date is the time you want to see how he act's. If your drunk you might mess the little thing's like the fact that he being TO nice. I mean like the type of nice that would make you scare of being near him in the middle of a poepoe station
4.(B) Be yourself, I know that sounds like nothing new but if you sell yourself as the perfict match and then he/she finds out that you are not then well you deserve the heart break platter
5.(M) Guy's you and her are going good she has invited you back to her place, befor thing start getting hot ask to use her bathroom. When you get in there check her Med. cabenit, Bipolar, scitts, or anti sicodic meds. JUMP OUT THE WIDOW, doesn't matter if it's fifty floors up trust me you will be better off
6.(F) In most places there are free web sites that will allow you to check out a person's criminal history, all you need is there full name. Do it and see whats up, then when your out with him talk about what you saw(without letting him know) and see how he reacts, if he is hounest( this does not mean telling you he did those thing's) and gives you a real stand of where he comes from then it's good, if he denise and act's like he never has done anything wrong then say goodnight and have a big strong friend pick you up



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KhosKnight
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Posted on 03/09/2010

as for the background check it is a matter of public record, just like the list of pedifiles in your area. i was hitched to a manic bipolar for 9 years if they keep track of there level's they have less of a chance of going manic but remember LESS of a chance. run around the block a few more times and you will see. been all across america and have delt will all types of people. one thing i have learnt is trust only yourself cause when the dust settles you are the only one that will be there.



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Wulfric
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Posted on 03/07/2010

I don't know of any websites that allow you to check someone's background for free.  In any case, the info wyou would get for free is going to be severely redacted or limited over what you'd get if you pay for it.  I also think this is taking things a bit too far for a first date.  If the first date goes well or a little too well, THEN it's okay to be paranoid.  Run the background check then.  At least give the person a chance to make a good impression before you taint your prejudice with something you may or may not find on a background check.
As far as meds go, don't be too hasty.  You can make a graceful exit without setting off any alarms.  If the person is currently on the meds and acting normal your exit will be easier.  If the person is off the meds and the bipolar is showing through, then bail ASAP. Meds in and of themselves are no reason to call it off, just be cautious.
Opening the car door for her>  This might be okay in small towns where you're comfortable, but in larger cities you're most likely going to be taking a cab so make sure you have enough money for cab fare.   A lot of people don't even drive so make sure you know what's up before it gets to that point.  If one or both of you don't drive, find an alternative.  Meet somewhere in public.  Or figure out a way to make it work to your advantage.  Suggest a leisurely bike ride through a park or something where you can stop and enjoy nature.
Overall, good suggestions.



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